Family Law Attorney in Contra Costa County

Preparing for a custody discussion can help you explain your concerns more clearly. Our Walnut Creek office assists Contra Costa parents with the legal questions surrounding parenting plans and mediation.

Prepare for child custody mediation

Review the appointment notice and any instructions for orientation or documents. Court-connected custody mediation follows its own procedures; ask what to expect rather than assuming it will work like private mediation.

Write down the issues to be discussed and the points already agreed. Bring your current orders and a calendar of school, work, and childcare commitments.

Describe a practical parenting plan

Think through the details of ordinary weeks as well as holidays and school breaks. Transportation, exchange locations, and communication can be as important in daily life as the broad outline of a schedule.

Explain why a proposal addresses your child’s needs. Specific information about routines and practical difficulties is more useful than a list of criticisms about the other parent.

Raise safety concerns early

Tell your attorney and the mediator about domestic violence, restraining orders, or concerns about meeting together. Separate meetings and other accommodations may be available in court mediation.

The California Courts safety-accommodations guide provides general information. Discuss the arrangements for your own appointment in advance.

Understand what follows the discussion

Ask how any agreement will be documented and reviewed, and what happens if some issues remain unresolved. You can seek advice about proposed terms before taking the next step.

We welcome Alameda and Solano County matters alongside our Contra Costa focus. Learn more about custody and visitation and mediation.

Discuss your next steps

Consultations are paid appointments.